Thursday, February 17, 2011

3 Important Attitudes In Getting Better At Sex And Learning How To Last Longer Sexually By Michael D. Schaffer

The aim of this article is to introduce you to 3 important attitudes you need to have so you can be better at giving pleasure to your partner through foreplay and sex in general. By learning these attitudes, you will be able to worry less about your performance during intercourse and about not lasting longer sexually, because you will know that you've given her pleasure by the time when you enter into her.

Here's the 3 attitudes that I want to introduce to you.

Attitude #1: Give her pleasure first

Don't just take off your pants and try to insert your penis into her vagina as soon as you know she's fine with having sex with you. Instead, take some time to fondle her body. Make sure to give her pleasure first. It's a simple attitude, but it's one of the most important attitudes to keep in mind when you have sex with someone. Sex is not a glorified form of masturbation in which you use someone else's body to stimulate your penis, but it's an interactive art that you create with her.

Attitude #2: Listen to her body

Every woman is different and likes different things.Slow down and take some time to understand what she likes and what she reacts to most. If you have the attitude #1, it will be easier to have this attitude and to listen to her body. All you need to do is to slow down and to fondle her body softly. Try to kiss various parts of her body. Try to touch them. Some women like it hard and rough, but unless you have a solid relationship with her and she tells that she likes it that way, I encourage you to take it slowly and softly in the beginning.

Attitude #3: Relax and have fun

Sex is meant to be fun! You might be worried about premature ejaculation or your performance, but breathe properly and enjoy exploring her body. The greatest pleasure comes when you're relaxed. If you are relaxed, she'll be able to relax and more likely to enjoy what you do to her too. If you are worried, that will make her worried about that you are worried about something. A good way to relax and have fun is to have the attitudes #1 and#2, and to enjoy giving her pleasure. If you see her enjoying what you do, it will make you feel so much better. Try it!

These attitudes will help you not only improve your foreplay skills, but also your skills during intercourse too. In order to become able to give intense pleasure to women during intercourse, you will need to be able to last long - it's important to learn it.

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